When I thought about creating a blog on this topic I was excited, it’s a topic that I don’t feel gets recognized enough.

The lone wolf, the loner.

Society tends to promote being in relationships and discouraging aloneness. There are even relationship coaches who are paid to help you get into relationships.

But there is not much talk about the people who thrive better alone in their own company. From the day we are born, we are programmed to believe that living one type of way is right for all, but that is further from the truth.

I grew up in a huge family with 2 sisters and 3 brothers, my mom had 7 siblings and my dad had 8 siblings so that meant a whole lot of cousins. Saying that I grew up in a huge family is an understatement.

Now I enjoy my time with my family, but I have always wanted to do my own thing and be alone. I wouldn’t want to always go to the family gathering, or always hang out with my cousins at a party.

Much of the time I would be doing my own thing, and they would call me out to come out of my shell.

As I have gotten older and have been going through my spiritual journey, I embraced the need for my alone time.

Using my lone path as a superpower to help heal others.

So, what is a lone wolf?

A lone wolf in the animal kingdom is a wolf that is not part of a pack. Lone wolves in the animal kingdom are not loners in the true sense. They may even occasionally interact with other lone wolves or packs.

In figurative terms, a lone wolf is a person who is independent, self-sufficient, and prefers to work or live alone.

There is a misconception that lone wolves are anti-social or isolated, which is not true for all. Many lone wolves can form bonds and relationships with others.

As a lone wolf myself I make sure to prioritize balance in my life, balancing between socializing and my alone time, this is where I meet an equal medium.

Here are the top 5 signs that you might be a lone wolf.

Independent

You are self-reliant to the core. If you often find yourself making choices without seeking input from others, it could be a sign that you’re comfortable going the path alone.

There is a lot of figuring things out on your own, that is how you learn.

This doesn’t mean you don’t value advice; rather, it suggests a high level of self-reliance and confidence in your judgment.

March to the beat of your own drum

Lone wolves don’t conform just for the sake of fitting in.

This can be conflicting for you because society would like you to fit in, but you would rather do your own thing.

Even if you try to conform it never feels comfortable.

People might admire you, or think you are strange or weird, but you are unique in the way that you show up in the world.

You love your solitude.

One of the most obvious signs of being a lone wolf is the constant craving for solitude.

While others may find comfort in social gatherings, you find solace in the quiet moments spent alone.

This is the time when you get to reflect and go inward, sometimes even to recharge after a highly social event.

I noticed that even while being out I tend to enjoy spending time outside in places where there is the least amount of people, no concerts for me.

You have a small friend group.

I always had lots of friends and family members, but I also always had two or three very close friends who I shared my close feelings with.

Prioritizing deep and meaningful connections instead of just having many friends is important to a lone wolf.

While others might have an army of acquaintances, you’ve got a tight-knit pack of close friends who understand and respect your lone-wolf tendencies.

You’re a dreamer and a doer

Lone wolves are driven by their passions and personal goals.

You have the drive to chase your dreams with tenacity, preferring to walk on your path rather than following others.

This could manifest in a dedicated career, a creative endeavor, or any personal pursuit that takes center stage in your life.

Conclusion

Being a lone wolf is not a label to be feared; rather, it’s a unique and empowering way of navigating life.

If you resonate with these signs, embrace the journey of self-discovery and independence. Remember that being a lone wolf doesn’t mean isolating yourself completely; it’s about finding a balance between personal space and meaningful connections.

Embracing your lone wolf traits can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life where you walk confidently on your chosen path.